A few people missed a talk I gave back in January on the subject of ‘love’. As Valentine’s is approaching, and in a rather loose connection, I thought I might share some of the things I offered in that talk here.
The most important thing I shared was this: ‘You are loved beyond measure’. The psalmist says to God “How priceless is your unfailing love; both high and low find refuge in the shadow of your wings; and feast in the abundance of your house….” Psalm 36: 7-8
Statistics tell us that almost half of all marriages in England and Wales will sadly end in divorce if current trends continue. Love, in society, can at times be conditional – ‘I love you because you because you make me happy’. It’s based on feelings and emotions that can change from one moment to the next. Love can be temporary, it can be withdrawn when something or someone better comes along. It’s based on needs being fulfilled. When the going gets tough love leaves through the door. Have you ever been let down by someone who was supposed to love you? Love can be fickle
But not so with God. You are loved beyond measure. God’s love for you is unconditional, committed, loyal and unfailing – “How priceless is your unfailing love”.
Mother Theresa said “There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.” We don’t need to be hungry for love and appreciation anymore – we’ve got it. The psalmist says that you can find refuge in the shadow of His wings; and feast in the abundance of God’s house. In Exodus 19 when God gave His eternal covenant of love He spoke of carrying you on eagles wings – the psalmist echoes this - find refuge in the shadows of his wings. In Leviticus 3 we read that the very choicest parts of an animal were sacrificed and given to God. God in turn wants to give them back to you – the psalmist says feast in the abundance of God’s house. It’s a simple analogy that says that He wants the very best for you.
He doesn’t love you because you’re lovable or because you can do anything for Him. He loves you because you’re His child – He’s made a covenant with you. He’s not going to drop you. You are loved beyond measure. In the Old Testament we read this “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart” Jeremiah 1: 5 You were loved even before you were born.
On over 500 separate occasions in the Bible you hear words of love from God to you.
“God’s love has been poured out into our hearts…..God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5: 5-8
You are loved beyond measure.
In John’s gospel the story’s told of a woman caught in adultery. That woman had done wrong and disgraced herself and her family. I guess many of us have known feelings ofdisgrace, feelings that you don’t deserve anything, that you’re not good enough. What does Jesus do for that woman? He reflects the graceful love of His Father – Jesus tells her “…I do not condemn you…” John 8: 11 (paraphrased) He reflects the love and mercy of the Father. You are loved as if there is no other.
The heart of God is not condemnation but love. You are not condemned. You are loved. You are wanted. You are needed.
This coming Sunday the readings in church will be Col 1:15-20 & John 1:1-14 and the theme is ‘God’s saving Grace’.
I’m away for a few days so I’ll see you next time in church.
With every blessing
Lee
The Reverend Lee Townend MA
All Saints’, Ilkley
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